Vietnamese dating rituals
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.stay home, take care of the kids, always pour new alcohol into his empty glass etc.).I also experienced that they’re unable to do anything on their own.When I ask them about how they got their cellphone or credit card they just answer they don’t know because their wife did it for them.The man only gets a small allowance every week or month and needs to ask his wife for permission if he wants to spend any more of his own hard-earned money!Foreign guys often seem to struggle with this system.
One big problem seems to be the fact that in Japan the man earns the money, but the woman takes care of it!Because of all that I’ve seen couples who got divorced, even when there were kids involved.I noticed that those kind of relationships seem to work out better if they live in his home country and not in Japan.For some reason (maybe through the consumption of too many Hollywood movies) Japanese women think that foreign men are like that!They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.
For some guys it really gets to their heads and they start bragging about it like crazy as part of the superstar syndrome.