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This also applies if he is physically attractive or is perceived by the woman to have high social value. The woman is unusually attractive in the man’s eyes, and she is confident about her value and attractiveness.
Here is how the best naturals I’ve seen pull girls into a bathroom hookup in less than 15 minutes. And, by pulling more often than pushing, you can also create the deep emotional connections much faster (if you’re continually pushing her away emotionally , how can she possibly feel an emotional connection? (Taking a step closer to her so that we’re inches apart, I say in a quieter tone,) You know, you’re making me really nervous. In other words, her boyfriend objections (or whatever) mean nothing to me. He’s cocky because he believes that she’d be crazy to turn him down. This is the ideal kind of frame to be operating from when doing Pull Cocky-Funny.
It’s (1)pull – (2)pull – (3)pull – (4)pull – (5)PUSH… ) A far more efficient way to develop emotional connections is to pull her in emotionally. I find this whole exchange completely charming and hilarious.
When you’re emotionally pulling a girl in by telling her to kiss you, she will have to work extra hard to resist. In fact, by pulling most of the time, when you do finally push her away, it’ll feel that much more powerful to her. (Pull #5) Her: (laughed) Me: (perking up and letting out a sly smile): Okay, give me your number. I took her number, we talked a little bit more, then I let her go back to her friends. You can’t imagine something like this working when you’re a beginner, but this is how top naturals with tons of confidence around women are able to get the girl excited and attracted so fast. In fact, I don’t even think that push was necessary.
Most girls like a strong, dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic guy, and many girls have the fantasy of “being taken” by such a man. If you’re a dominant guy, girls will feel pressure to follow your orders, and unless she’s very dominant herself, chances are good that she will NOT pull you in return every time. (Push #1) Her: (laughed) Me: (said nothing and continued looking fake-mad) Her: “Okay, bye,” and started walking off. I texted her about an hour later, and she texted back, asking what I was doing tomorrow. This sort of Pull Cocky-Funny can get you super fast makeouts and, as my natural friends have shown, club bathroom hookups. Among the community old-timers, Zan is probably the best representative of this kind of cocky-funny.
Here’s why: If your fundamentals are good, then you will be a relatively dominant, powerful, confident, charismatic, and emotionally steadfast man.
It’s the push dynamic that makes these high-value or good-looking guys come across as too unattainable.
For guys like this, it’s best to use the pull dynamic more often and save the push dynamic for that 20% of dramatic contrast. But for the most part, if your fundamentals are already strong, then: a) You can get much faster attraction by pulling her in more often than you can by pushing her away.
Hence, girls (and most people in general) will naturally feel like following your lead.
So when you tell a girl to sit down, she will feel a strong social and emotional pull to sit down. I’m going to go home and cry now (and then I slumped my shoulders as if completely sad and depressed).
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