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While we might appreciate having the freedom and power to buy exactly that which we want, that very freedom of choice can breed the need within us to seek perfection in our choices and never settle or make do.

This inherent need, often found among a group labeled by American psychologist Barry Schwartz as maximizers, find the sheer number of alternatives in a decision to be overwhelming leaving them often feeling anxious and depressed (Schwartz, 2004).

But I hear there's a cool show at the planetarium …"). And while in certain worlds this is the norm, often things that are a norm in a Chassidic world have perfectionistic roots in a different environment. Indeed Rav Hershel Schachter writes that Rav Soloveitchik ztl.noted that our practice never insisted on holding up a shidduch until the rebbe approves (Me Peninei Ha Rav, p. Demanding this approval is perfectionistic in nature and serves as a religious cover for a psychologically driven desire for reassurance that can never be filled by someone else.In relationships, we often find many who are afraid to commit without reassurance and blessing from one’s rebbeim.– and that the reassurance must be recited by those Rebbeim, perfectly. 240) used to bemoan the “laziness” of our generation who are afraid to think or daven on their own.

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Why be concerned with a pervasive preoccupation with perfection? Perfection is not a Torah desired concept to be had in relationships. The Malbim (Yeshaya ) distinguishes between two similar Torah concepts – temimut and sheleimut.