Dating in the 19 s be very structured
When you use money to take a woman out to nice dinners and to buy her gifts too early in the relationship, the woman will begin to think the man is trying to BUY her affection. And if she actually likes this then my advice to men is: RUN! Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.When you build up your personality you simultaneously increase your attractiveness.Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman in a masculine role.Typically, a woman can only feel attraction for a man when she is in her feminine, therefore as a man you need to step into the masculine dominant role more.She gets upset when you hang with your friends and you are not even dating. Nothing scares a woman off faster than a guy who becomes emotionally involved way too quickly.She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.I will show you what no other article would ever dare show you for free: It’s like a nice billboard advertisement it gets your attention but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll buy the product. The woman may still answer your calls and let you take her out, but that is simply because she enjoys free stuff. Very few men know this, and guy who worked his tail off for the sole purpose of attracting women through power cannot even comprehend this fact.The media has done a great job at making you believe in the erroneous assumption that money and six pack abs is the path to get your dream girl. If you spend too much money on a woman or do too many favors for her, you are subtly telling her that your pocketbook is ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER.
The more you improve yourself, the more high quality women will be interested in you.– Bobbe Sommer When you start thinking like this, you start liking girls that remotely show any signs of interest in you.You think you can’t create that same connection with another girl, so you settle for less than you deserve without even realizing it It is strictly social conditioning.Imagine being with this woman, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having a great connection every day.Bliss…If any of the above sparks your interest and you want to learn how to get a girlfriend then you need to pay attention.
You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.